Just had this random thought about being social. I picture people's desire to hang out on a scale:

    1                     5                       10
Clinger           Normal         No desire at all

Generally, anything between 1 and 4 creeps me out, and anything between 6 and 8.5 intrigues me. 8.6 to 10 has no point.

Kinda weird. I think it's natural to think that way, but it's just weird and makes me wonder why people were designed or learned to think like that.

I completely forgot about a close friend's bday that's tomorrow until yesterday and I kinda feel like a jerk. I mean, yes, it's not like I literally COMPLETELY forgot about it, but usually I'm on top of these things. I mean, yeah, he didn't make it to hang out with me on my bday, so I shouldn't feel that bad, but he's a long time friend. Bleh.

So, I'm pumped that the album artwork is essentially done. Gonna get the badboy ordered by Friday.

Per the request of Quinn, this is me blogging more. See me blog. Blog, me, blog. I don't really like to talk about myself and my daily happenings, so I usually resist writing things in here. That is, unless it's something I need to get off my chest, but I'm just going to go with it.

Music of the day thus far:
Hot Rod Circuit - Sorry About Tomorrow

This week I'm pumped for:
Today - Getting the album artwork done hopefully. I really need to get on selling the tickets as the date is fast approaching. Craaaazy.
Wednesday - Trivia! Final week for the season, and as long as we don't fuck up big time, we're automatically going to the Playoffs and possible the Championship.

Thursday - Kevin's standup, we might even get COUGARS!
Saturday - Playing bass at a gig for the first time. Can't wait to rock in a band in a different role.


Other thoughts lately:
I'm pretty overall content. Hanging out with everyone about equally, meeting some new people here and there. So yeah, pretty much all there is to say about that.

Really, really digging the gear I picked up last week. Perfect to play solo stuff and to have the 60's tones I've really wanted at bedroom levels.




I've decided guitar gear-wise I'm just going to sell off anything I don't use really frequently and just have ideal setups for each of the types of music I want to play:
Rock and roll - ES339 > JMP 2204
60's pop/solo stuff - '62 Telecaster w/ Bigsby > AC15C1
Pop-punk - '72 Deluxe or Delonge Strat > DSL 50 or JMP 2204

Really need to get the Thinline, some extra pedals, maybe the Delonge, and maybe the DRRI out the door to get a '72.

I probably should have followed up the last one of these sooner, but whatever. My mistakes were not as drastic as they seemed to me when I wrote the last entry. In fact, it seems as though I make a MUCH bigger deal out of things in my mind than I should. What can I say though... a "stage 3 clinger" freaks me out a little bit.

But as those mistakes pass, good things come. I've realized that staying true to the idea of doing what makes you happy is truly the most important thing. That said, as a way of addressing my fears of not meeting new people and putting myself out there, I'm going to the Cursive/Alkaline Trio show with this random girl. Usually when I get myself in to these kinds of situations, I have a level of apprehension. My sleep goes to hell, I get anxious, and I have a sensation of dreading what will come of it. However, this week I've felt completely relaxed, to a level that is out the ordinary for me. I've slept 9 hours or so the past two nights, which is unheard of unless I'm sick. I have a good feeling about this *knock on wood*

Sometimes I do things to put myself out there, then I realize it might not be the best idea after the fact. Most of the time I'm pretty good at making logical decisions, but when it comes to social things I do some dumb shit. I guess you have to make mistakes, otherwise, you will not learn.

I realize that I sometimes use playing music as a way of escaping things I don't want to deal with. But I think that's ok. In my mind all good things in life will come because of music. Music gives me a medium to be myself on a level not able to be reached in normal interaction. Completely devoid of anything negative; true, pure, honest.

So pumped on the band right now. We've got three good recordings, and we'll probably do a couple more throughout the month. We're getting some new promos done, redoing the myspace, getting stickers, and maybe doing some shirts. Being in a band can be a lot of work, but being able to say, "yeah, this is us" just feels awesome.

I feel like I'm staring down the barrel of a loaded gun. That gun's name is life. It's easy to ignore our shortcomings and neglect things we should deal with when our life is busy. Because, well, you're too busy to think about those things. Eventually, we all get free time, and those things catch up with us. The question is, do you sit and continue in ignorance, or do what you can to change those things? Better yet, how do we change those things that we've neglected for so long?

These are the questions that are currently on my mind. I've made some pretty radical changes in my life, but I feel most of those were done when I was much younger. More able to change. I personally think the inability to change is some bullshit figment of my imagination, and with a little will, I can make the changes I want again. It's that first moment of jumping that's the bitch... the free-fall is a blast.

I love doing these lists cause it gives you a chance to think about all the great music that has come out. Granted, I'll probably revise this, but it's something to kill time at work.


Best of 2009

1. The Dangerous Summer - Reach for the Sun

2. Brand New - Daisy

3. Paramore - Brand New Eyes

4. Conor Oberst and the Mystic Valley Band - Outer South

5. Phoenix - Wolfgang Amadeus Phoenix

6. Passion Pit - Manners

7. Ace Enders and a Million Different People - When I Hit the Ground

8. Title Fight - The Last Thing You Forget

9. Them Crooked Vultures - s/t

10. Manchester Orchestra - Mean Everything to Nothing

Best of the Decade

1. At the Drive-In - Relationship of Command

2. Brand New - Deja Entendu

3. The Starting Line - Say It Like You Mean It

4. Ted Leo/The Pharmacists - Shake the Sheets

5. Death Cab for Cutie - Transatlanticism

6. Ryan Adams - Rock and Roll

7. The Hold Steady - Boys and Girls in America

8. Bloc Party - Silent Alarm

9. Bright Eyes - Fevers and Mirrors

10. Nada Surf - The Weight Is a Gift

Today is just a blogging kind of day, I suppose. This one falls under my lack of understanding with social things and people. There was this girl in my music class in the Spring who I thought seemed pretty cool, but as luck would have it, she would come in after the class had started and leave right as it ended. Seemingly, just another one of those people who you notice in life, they don't notice you, and you never see again.

Out of the blue, my friend sends me a text message and says she's with her friend who knows me. I don't recognize the name my friend throws out so I look her up through Facebook and it turns out to be this girl. This just confuses the hell of out of me, not on a women level, but on a people level. It seemed that this girl who paid little attention to my existance and rarely talked to me somehow remembers me, my name, and being in this class with me. How the hell does that work? I'm more used to being on the creeper side of keeping tabs on people. As the creeper, you would think you would know when your being creep'd.

I kind of brushed it off as whatever until my friend asked me to go drinking with her and this girl. I can't really tell if this is one of those trying to hook up friends things or if it's like hey, they know each other, so yeah. I dunno man... creeper role reversal'd.

Done. Finally done with school. Right now I'm just feeling really excited about all the free time that I'll be able to devote to things that deserve my attention. I thought when it came down to the moment, I'd be feeling super-anxious, but right now, it feels great. I guess I was kinda fearing the onset of anxiety attacks like I had last year around this time, but *knock on wood* I'm feeling the excited side of that emotion rather than the worried side. Hopefully, that's an indication that I have a better notion of where I am, who I am, and where I need to go.

Does acting pretentious actually mean you have any intellectual value? My opinion: no, it usually means the opposite.

There's this old dude at work who talks like someone on the history channel, does that contemplative folded hands thing when he swings his chair around (think Dr. Evil), and if you hand him something while he's working, he won't bother to look away. He also tells really dry jokes and laughs like he should be having tea and crumpets.

Don't forget to stick up your pinky, you want them to know you're classy.

One of my friends become (and I use this term loosely) acquaintences has decided to move back to Australia. It's weird for me to even give a second thought to a thing like this, but all of a sudden I feel that people are leaving. Or at least, ultimately plan to leave. College ends and we are free to explore. The world is our oyster and all that stuff.

Am I stupid for staying here? I don't feel like it, but maybe I'm blinded by comfort of the familiar.

My internal/external struggle with school and doing things I enjoy is becoming way too apparent. I'll sit and do one problem of a homework assignment, then stop and pick up the guitar for 15 minutes, then I'll go look at some computer stuff, then I'll come back to homework. At that point I think to myself, "Oh shit, I actually have to finish this."

5 weeks, 2 days to go.

Sometimes I feel distant from everyone, and in those moments I feel a little more human. In a weird way though, it's kind of enjoyable. No negativity. More focused. More thoughtful. Thinking of the future. It gives me hope, as strange as that might seem.

Holy hell... As a person who feels like they endlessly search for that tone in their head, I think this is as close as humanly possible.

I live in a world of constant cycles, whether it be a daily, weekly, or annual cycle. It seems that everything I do or that happens to me can be put into one of those groups. I guess I just started thinking about it because it's particularly noticable to me in the fall season.

Daily cyclical things - Work, school, homework, feel tired after lunch, see a particularly attractive girl at work or school with no way to talk to her, try to at least pick up the guitar once a day, etc.
Weekly cyclical things - M-Thurs work/school, Thurs - Padonia Station, Friday - dick around, Sat - band practice
Annual things - Feel awesome in the spring/summer, feel bummed in the fall, get sick at the exact same times each year

I guess these things aren't really uncommon to anyone, but I just think it's strange.

Never, never, never gets old.

I realized that the best gift anyone can give to another person is their trust. When trust is achieved we can share any feelings, problems, and, on the other side of the coin, all the great things. I was feeling like I was falling into a deep funk, and then someone shared something with me. That trust is the invisible hand reaching out to say, "No one is in this alone."

Girl, hit me up.